Even though writing doesn’t have to adhere to a strict schedule, learning how to manage your time is still crucial for aspiring authors. Why? Because writing a book is a long-term commitment. Without some form of time management, it’s easy to let weeks or even months pass without making progress, leaving your project stuck in the idea phase.
Read MoreAs a memoir instructor and author, I’ve seen many aspiring writers struggle with pinpointing the unique elements of their life story. It’s easy to get caught up in the belief that your experiences are too ordinary, but the truth is, the perspective and lens through which you share those experiences are what make your memoir special.
Read MoreMaybe it’s time. Maybe it’s confidence. Maybe it’s simply not knowing how to organize all your memories into a cohesive story. If you’re feeling stuck, know this—you’re not alone.
Read MoreMemories aren't static recordings but dynamic, reconstructive experiences. They're influenced by emotions, sensory triggers, and psychological states. Understanding this can transform how we approach memory exploration.
Read MoreIt’s important to allow yourself to fully experience the emotions that come up while writing. Avoiding or suppressing these feelings can lead to emotional bottling, which can stall your writing and even your healing process. Let yourself cry if you need to, laugh at the funny memories, and sit with the uncomfortable ones. This emotional honesty will come through in your writing and make your memoir more powerful.
Read MoreImagine how you’ll feel when you enter 2025, not with the weight of “what if I had started,” but with the confidence that you’ve already begun your memoir journey. You’ll have momentum behind you, a routine in place, and pages of your story already written.
Read MoreThe pull that a writer feels is sharing his or her words, fiction or not, is undeniable. Memoirists will tell you that they have a need from within to “get their stories out.” Writers must write, but crafting memoirs requires authors to harness vulnerability that is often uncomfortable or awkward.
Read MoreThere are many who for the first time in their lives have had to accept help. It’s not one of those “muscle memory” reflexes. It’s hard, awkward, and uncomfortable. While we all have the capacity to be helpers, we must remember that there are times in all our lives that we must accept help.
Read MoreWhether you’re just starting or have been writing for a while, creating habits that support your memoir-writing journey is essential. These habits are the building blocks that will transform your ideas into a finished manuscript.
Read MoreShowing up for yourself means embracing the courage to write, even when it feels difficult, and trusting that your story deserves to be told. Remember, your experiences are valuable, and only you can share them with the world.
Read MoreYour story is worth telling. We Love Memoirs Day is a reminder of the power of personal narratives and the importance of sharing our truths.
Read MoreIt's normal to question whether your story is worth telling, especially in a world where we're constantly comparing ourselves to others. We see extraordinary tales of triumph, adventure, or adversity and wonder, "Is my story really that important?"
Read MoreDeciding to write my memoir wasn’t the kind of realization that struck like lightning, but rather, it was a slow, dawning awareness that my experiences - my life - held a story that deserved to be told.
Read MoreScenarios of future pacing, such as envisioning your book on store shelves, imagining yourself holding your book in your hands, and reading that first positive review can lead to confidence, but before any of that can happen, aspiring authors must create a mindset that breeds success.
Read MoreAs with anything, practice makes progress, so we continue to write. But reading different authors’ styles also contributes to improving how you deliver your unique story.
Read MoreThe name “Ring of Kerry” is stitched in myth and legend. According to local folklore, the circular route was created by a mystical race of giants who shaped the landscape to protect the region’s natural beauty.
Read MoreNo matter who you are or where you stand in your writing journey, seeking help and building a community around your work is essential.
Read MoreBefore settling in each Saturday evening with our T.V. dinners on tray tables while watching All in the Family and The Jeffersons, Aunt Margaret would give my brother and me intellectual exercises. Crossword puzzles, dictionary drills, and flash cards were fun, but one Saturday afternoon, she presented me with a new challenge.
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